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This week’s letter - DL-0058
Block him. Then block the part of you that keeps unblocking him.

“My ex texts ‘you up?’ every few weeks and I always answer. Nothing ever happens , we talk for an hour, he vanishes, and my friends are sick of hearing about it. What is wrong with me?” , Still Answering, 11:47pm

Nothing’s wrong with you. You’ve just turned a man into a hobby. He’s not texting because he misses you , he texts because it works. The hour-long talk isn’t a connection, it’s a rerun. You’re not too much; you’re just answering the wrong phone.

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A verdict first, the reasoning second. Browse what Lexie’s already settled.

He believes in anniversaries. He just doesn’t want to plan one.

“My boyfriend of three years says anniversaries are ‘a scam invented by restaurants.’ Am I overreacting?”

Case DL-0043 - The Couple
She’s not labeling food. She’s sending a message.

“My roommate started writing her name on her groceries , and crossing mine off the shared shelf. Do I say something?”

Case DL-0037 - Roommates
A honeymoon has a guest list of two. That’s the whole point.

“My fianc© wants to bring his mom on our honeymoon because ‘she’s never been to Italy.’ How do I say no?”

Case DL-0051 - In-Laws
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